maggiechu 寫道:
[即係個女有扭計或哭,就不要比任何反應,做自己嘢,等到佢唔再扭時,我才回應佢嗎?和讚賞佢無再哭,是嗎?
SandraLo 寫道:
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maggiechu 寫道:
[即係個女有扭計或哭,就不要比任何反應,做自己嘢,等到佢唔再扭時,我才回應佢嗎?和讚賞佢無再哭,是嗎?
maggiechu 寫道:
[即係個女有扭計或哭,就不要比任何反應,做自己嘢,等到佢唔再扭時,我才回應佢嗎?和讚賞佢無再哭,是嗎
現在剛歲半,近排開始扭計,好鐘意樣樣都要有佢份,無份或無得搞就扭,扭幾扭就哭,叫佢唔好再哭,就忟起黎打自己頭,有時我會不理佢嘅行為,但有時見佢不停打自己頭好大力,我就好激氣,仲打佢手仔。
我知咁做係唔好,但.....唉!我現在盡量當佢忟憎時,會平靜地不望佢,直到佢收聲或冷靜後才理會佢,這樣做法,得嗎?
SandraLo 寫道:
berthanokching :
睇你描述嘅情況,你囝囝唔似特登唔應你,似係聽唔到多啲,小朋友或成人聽嘢有時是選擇性的,你細想一下,他不啋你的會不會是他不感興趣的?還有一個可能是他太專注响某件事上時,就什麼都聽不到!
數月前我曾在報紙看過一個有關「聽力失調」的報導,內容大約是「聽得到」(正常聽力)和「聽不到」(弱聽)之間,還有一些不同的問題,例如有些人對某些聲頻特別敏感,有些則是特別不敏感甚至聽不到;也有是耳朵分辦不到那個聲音要聽,因此在嘈雜環境便會聽得不好等等......
你可以再留意一下....
berthanokching 寫道:
SandraLo,
其實我個囡囡唔系聽唔到,是佢唔想做的事情佢就炸聽唔到,因為我是有留意她的神情的。有時我會頂唔順發皮四,
但是現在發少左了,因為知道發皮氣是冇用的,但是唔知用什麼方法可以叫佢做一叫即做呢?
Bertha
SandraLo 寫道:
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berthanokching 寫道:
SandraLo,
其實我個囡囡唔系聽唔到,是佢唔想做的事情佢就炸聽唔到,因為我是有留意她的神情的。有時我會頂唔順發皮四,
但是現在發少左了,因為知道發皮氣是冇用的,但是唔知用什麼方法可以叫佢做一叫即做呢?
Bertha
peiddpei 寫道:
Dear SandraLo ,
Actually i'm facing the problem same with maggiechu's kid. my daughter is 15mths and she always lose her temper and scream once she can't get what she want. The main problem is i'm living with my 99, she is the one to take care of my kid in day time. Of course she is my daughter's 避難所. when my daughter is crying (no matter 扭計 or asking something what she want, 99 will immed come to her to satified her in order to stop her from crying. If i'm using the method "ignor" but i think 99 will not do the same with me.
pls tell me what should i do
Tora 寫道:
SandraLo:
呢2日我又用第2 個辦法對囡囡...
就係佢喊到唔收聲, 我就會扮怪獸, 當然恐怖小小嗰隻啦, 佢即刻收聲喎, 跟住就話"我要媽咪, 我唔喊啦!!" 好好笑, 又幾work喎. 事後我會再解釋比佢知, 媽咪變怪獸係囡囡做怪獸先咋...好似乎明白小小, 不過唔知我咁處理又啱唔啱呢?